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Timothy Alan Lee, was a devoted and loving husband, a protector and defender of all he loved. He was at his cherished home surrounded by loved ones when he answered his Saviour’s call and went to a well deserved resting place on Friday, January 26th, 2024.
Timothy Lee was educated in the Washington DC Public School system and attended University of the District of Columbia. Timothy was an avid reader, social blogger and a Grill Master. He enjoyed many sports to include boxing, basketball and was a huge Dallas Cowboys fan.
In his youth, and early adulthood, Timothy proudly held positions as a lifeguard, assistant mechanic, and radio announcer. He frequently reflected on each position and how they transformed him as a man. Timothy was a retired Station Manager and Training Instructor from the Washington Metro Area Transit Authority. Amongst other awards, In 2011, while working for WMATA, Timothy received honors for thwarting two suicide attempts.
Timothy Lee was known to be a faithful, strong, supportive and passionate husband to his wife, Vera Lee. Their love and devotion for one another is a beacon of light and testament of love and honor to anyone who experienced their union. Tim profoundly loved his family that preceded him in death. His Father laid the framework for him becoming a man of character and his mother kept him balanced to be open to love and loving. His sisters were his precious jewels of this world whom he adored and protected at any and all costs. Timothy will be remembered as a principled man. While he wasn’t a religious man Timothy, he stood firm on honoring values that reflected biblical principles.
Timothy’s memory will be cherished by his loving wife, Vera Martell Lee; one brother Herman(Yolanda)Lee; his five caring ‘sisters-in-love’, as well as numerous loving cousins, nieces, nephews and friends.
Timothy was preceded in death by his father George Westly Lee Jr; mother Annie Belle Lee; and loving sisters Freida Christine Weldon and Sharon Laverne Lee.
Georgette --- (Tim's sister-in-love) says
Love and miss you Tim!
Val, my heart aches for you as you navigate this unimaginable loss. I am sitting here going through the text messages Tim and I have sent each other over the years – I miss him so much! Tim was an awesome, kind, loving, protective, honest, caring and as he was told many times “a tall drink of water”! I am so thankful that Tim was a part of our family; he was not only my brother in law; he was my brother. There are so many things I will miss about Tim – the most important one was seeing how he loved you; not only by his words but in his actions. I will miss the best tasting ribs, chicken, sausage, etc. – he was the Green Egg Grill Master! I will miss our impromptu hand dancing too! Tim’s presence in my life was a huge blessing and the memories of him will forever be a part of my story. Val, please remember that you are not alone, Tim’s memory will forever live on in your heart, and in the cherished moments you shared. Love you.
(Isaiah 41:10 – ” Do not be afraid for I am with you. Do not be anxious, for I am your God. I will fortify you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with my right hand of righteousness.”)
J.R. Irby says
Uncle Tim,
First and Foremost I miss you terribly. I love you so much it hurts. I remember when you took me on your golf cart and told me about your childhood. That’s when our dynamic changed cuz you said I’m your son. Meant alot. I looked at you as a father figure. You showed me every time how to treat a Queen by how you treated Auntie. Definition of a man that is you. I love you and I can’t wait to see you again Uncle Tim. Love you.
Annette says
Annette L.; Tim’s Sister-in-Love
Val, words cannot express how sorrowful I am for your loss. The love you shared with Tim is unparalleled. I know you miss him dearly.
Tim, thank you for being my sister’s soulmate. You ignited a spark in her life that will never dim.
It was my honor to be your best man at the wedding. You promised to love, respect and treasure your wife. You kept that promise. My promise to you is that I will love support and care for her in your absence.
Love you forever Annette
Nicole Hudson says
Vera- My heart is completely shattered for you. That was a very beautiful eulogy for a beautiful life lived. You were an amazing wife and support for Tim. Being around you two for just a second is all it took to see the love that radiated; it was a treasure so few get to fully appreciate and experience. You were truly his Queen and he worshiped the ground you walked on. He had such a huge presence that was always warm and welcoming. I am truly blessed to have been put in your lives and to still be welcomed by you and your amazing family. I love you and I am so immeasurably sorry for your loss.
Courtney (niece) says
Dear Uncle Tim,
I first want to thank you, for sharing who you are with my family, and with my wonderful Auntie. The nobility, humor, wisdom, and sheer character instilled within you is something I will continuously admire. I thank you dearly for sharing years of joy with my Auntie, thank you for making her smile and laugh everyday. Thank you for giving her a pep in her step and laugh in her tone every time I called. Thank you for protecting her, and caring for her. Thank you even more for allowing her to show and share who we are, as a family. There are 8 billion people in the world but few hold a candle to you. There is a light you brought that cannot be describe, but for that light, I thank God. I promise to carry out your wishes from here, and to look after your amazing Wife. For all that you have done, for all that you have given, I appreciate you more than I can ever describe. What a man I was privileged to know and love. Until we meet again, Uncle Tim.
with love,
Courtney
Willette LeGrant says
To Mrs. Timothy Lee and the Lee Family,
I thank you for the gift of Timothy Lee. As I sit here, I’m at a loss for words to describe this great man. All my words seem so inadequate. How do you give honor to a man who was a giant among giants. This man came into my life just six short years ago and it has not been the same since. When I first met him, I was very skeptical of him. Nothing in his behavior or character warranted my skepticism, however life had taught me that trusting was not to be given easily. So, I remained true to my code, and I watched him. When he came to my home six short years ago, it was to begin the courtship of my baby sister, who would soon become Mrs. Timothy Lee. I introduced myself. We conversed for a short period, just enough for me to confirm he wasn’t a serial killer. As they began to leave to go on their date, I walked out with them. I took out my phone from my pocket, walked up to his car and snapped a picture of his license plate. He was standing less than a foot away from me. I turned around and said, “This isn’t personal, but if something happens to my sister, I will have to come for you”. In that moment, we saw each other, and we understood each other. I have always held a deep rooted since of responsibility for my sisters. I have not always succeeded, but I have always tried to protect them. When Tim came into our lives, he took that responsibility, and he did so willingly. But not just for Vera, whom he always referred to as “My Wife”. He rarely called her Vera, I really think he thought her name was “My Wife”, but he did so for all of us. He covered us all, even during his last days. There were always “Tim’s Rules” and they were not to be negotiated.
It was his greatest honor and joy to take care of Mrs. Timothy Lee. Up until that point, I had never seen a person protect, care, serve, love and support another in the way that he did with my sister. But then, in the months leading up to his transition, I saw with amazing grace that same protection, care. service, love and support minored in the way that his “Wife”, stood by his side and honored his every wish (as hard as it was for her) until he took his last breath.
I am better because you were! Until we meet again Big Brother. Love you always.
Kelli Young says
Rest Peacefully Tim Tim…you were a very nice man and definitely a Grill Master. You will be missed!
Monica (cousin) says
My heart sank when Vera told me you received your wings. Growing up around the the corner from you guys and visiting with Punky and telling you that you were too little to hang with us although I was to young to hang with Punky, she put up with me lol. Moving to California we loss touch but coming home and seeing all of you at Uncle George’s funeral…we have been there for each other every since. Did you tell Vera I taught you how to grill the correct way in 105 degree weather that summer, so much fun. When you bought Vera to Aunt Annie Belle’s (I have been calling her Annabelle) funeral, I knew you found the love you had been looking for and so glad to be a part of that too. Lord knows I am going to miss you so much but GOD needed you. You are with your family again and mine. With all my love and missing you madly…
Mary (cousin) says
Mary (cousin)
My lovely cousin Vera I am so saddened for you. My deepest condolences to Timothy Lee family and you. I remember first meeting Tim at my auntie’s memorial. The smile you had on your face introducing him I knew Tim was your soulmate. Then when I saw you at Georgette’s house and the glow and tinkle in your eyes when you spoke about him it warmed my heart. Then you said how you cooked for him I knew for sure he was the one. There’s no words I can say to ease your pain at this time. Just want to let you know I am here for you anytime or day of the week. Continue to keep the glow and tinkle in your eyes because Tim is definitely with you always. I love you so much!!!!!!!
Jane Ponce says
Dear Tim,
You and I were friends for ten years, and throughout that time, you were with me through all kinds of thick and thin. When I was upset, you always found a way to calm me down, often by providing the male point of view for a particular situation I was fussing about.
I always looked forward to talking with you, even when we talked about nothing more exciting than a trip to the gas station. Often, though, we talked about topics of more substance, like politics, religion, the universe , or even cooking. I enjoyed the stories you shared with me about growing up in your neighborhood, and I followed you from your house in Maryland to your apartment in Glen Burnie to your house in Georgia. I was so happy when you found Vera. With her, you finally found the peace of mind you had been missing for so long.
And now, my dear friend, it’s time to say goodbye. I will miss you terribly, but whenever I get upset about something, I will ask myself, “What would Tim say about that?”
Gregg Hopps says
Tim Lee has been my childhood friend since we were about 10 years old. We went to public schools together grew up together went on fishing trip and we even join the Boy Scouts for a short time. when he joined Metro, and I started working at giant warehouse with our crazy hours we kinda lost contact with each other. Then my brother told me that Tim worked at Metro with him I got in touch with him. I found out that he lived 10 minutes around the corner from me again, as it was when we grew up, that was about 10 years ago. since then we always kept in touch. Tim is definitely gone too soon and a special friend that will surely be missed.
Ron says
Timmy,
No words I write can truly express how much I will miss you.
My fondest memory of you is when I first called you Timmy. You told me only your family ever called you Timmy. And I said Timmy you are my family. And that is so true. You are my brother, and I was proud to call you family. Love you, and I will see you again one day.
Cheryl Brown says
Val, may your happy memories of Tim gives you peace and comfort during this challenging time.
Geraldine Snow says
I did not meet Tim but I heard so many wonderful things about him and that you were his everything. I love you Val and has been adopted into your family through my sister Georgette. God knows how much you can bear. At this time you cannot see it but the new chapter in your life will be Gods will. Don’t try to understand it or figure it out, just hold on to His words, I will never leave you or forsake you. Val hold on to all of your good memories of Tim and smile because God loves you and so do I
I am only a phone call away anytime.
Pinkie Harrod says
Val,
We are so sorry for your loss. We cannot imagine the pain you are experiencing. We wish we could remove your hurt. Almighty God is a God of all comfort and sees your distress. (Psalm 32:8, Isaiah 63:9) He is able, wants to, and will strengthen you. (Psalm 119:28) He promises to ‘fortify you, help you, really hold on to you with his right hand…’(Isaiah 41:10, 13) May meditating on the hope God gives lift you up and grant you peace.
Steven and Pinkie Harrod (Friends via Georgette)