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Patrick (Pat) Laird Parker, age 67, passed away peacefully at home after a long illness on Sunday, December 4, 2022, in Duluth, GA.
Patrick is survived by his wife, Tracy Sample; and his older brother Michael Parker of Wilmington, NC. He is predeceased by his parents.
Patrick was born at Naval Station Great Lakes, Illinois, on August 8, 1955, to USMC Gunnery Sergeant Thomas Parker from Council Bluffs, IA, and Rosemarie Ellen Carley Parker of New York City. The young family moved south and lived in Wilmington, NC., while the father was stationed at Camp Lejeune.
Patrick attended Catholic School in primary and middle grades in NC., Michigan, and New York. In high school, he excelled at theater and was a member of Troop 3098 of the International Thespian Society located at New Hanover High School. He graduated on Friday, June 8, 1973.
After high school, Patrick moved to Atlanta and became the drummer for many local bands, including The Instants, Haywire, Interrogator, and most notably The Tombstones. His later years were marked with enthusiastic drum solos in his attic for his beloved dog Tuesday.
Patrick also performed in local theatre to the delight of many audiences and fellow cast members, which ultimately led to small roles in indie films and TV productions such as In the Heat of the Night. He joined the Screen Actors Guild, obtained a talent agent, and was once cast as Harvey Keitel’s stand-in; clearly one of his favorite accomplishments.
When Patrick wasn’t performing, he was a carpenter who had worked on many homes throughout Atlanta that underwent extensive renovations. His hands were strong and confident. His final place of employment, Staging Techniques of Atlanta, allowed Patrick to combine his love for entertainment with his gifts as a craftsman.
Patrick was a voracious reader and passionate armchair historian. The staff at Georgia Cancer Center for Excellence located at Grady Hospital absolutely adored Patrick and would always ask him about the book in his possession. It could be pure joy listening to him expound on his current reading material.
Patrick will be deeply missed by his friends, family, and all that knew him. Per his wishes, his remains were cremated and his ashes to be scattered among the waves of coastal North Carolina and Georgia. In lieu of a traditional memorial service, a virtual ceremony will be held to celebrate his life.
Linda Patton says
Rip my dear friend. Deep sympathy to Tracy and his brother. He will be sorely missed. Much love 💞
Darlyn J Wilkerson says
Deepest sympathies Tracy. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Tiff says
Sending my blessings. Peace, love, and light to Patrick and Tracy.
Ilene Johnson says
Peter and I wish to extend our condonlences.
Paula Martinez says
Sending you love and light. So sorry for your loss, Tracy. Patrick was always so nice. My heart goes out to you.
AL CURRY says
“Peace & Blessings” at a time for heavy hearts shared by all of Patrick’s very dearly beloved family and friends.
Jeremiah King says
I’ll miss You greatly Patrick! You were a very insightful person that was wise and aware of so many things in world!
David Richardson says
I will miss him dearly. He had a kind heart, a great sense of humor, was multi-talented, and a true friend for many years.
State Representative Donna MeLeod says
My deepest condolences to you Tracy, the family and the friends that be missing him. May he rest in peace! Let his memory and spirit bring some measure of comfort as thr days , months, and years pass by.
STEVIE T says
Pat, You made a huge impact on my early life and you will be missed my friend. Godspeed.
Nancy Todd says
Tracy, I am so sorry to hear about your husband’s death. My heart hurts for you. Take care of yourself during this stressful time.
Gayle says
Tracy, there are no words to say right now to make you feel better, but my heart hurts for you. I regret that I missed the chance to know Patrick. He obviously had a very special place in many lives and gave so much to those who knew him. Thank you for sharing his story with me.
Chip Powell says
You were the best Murphy in cuckoo’s nest !
Mer says
Will there be a virtual memorial?
Joanna W. says
Patrick meant so much to our group. He was a great man, and he will be missed.
Debbie & Robert Goscenski says
I’m so sorry for your loss, know that Rob and send our deepest condolences and hopes for comfort and strength during this difficult time!
Debbie &